Editorial: Reflections on Father's Day 2016
It's one thing for a man to produce a baby.
It's quite another to become a father.
We salute those who do.
Some men with children become real fathers with a devotion that comes almost naturally. Sadly, some men with children never move past the biological definition.
Today's a day to celebrate the former group of fathers, the ones who know they make an indelible impact on the lives of their children and their families, the ones who cherish the special role that they play and recognize the deep responsibility they have.
These are the fathers who know that no matter what else they may achieve in life, it pales in comparison to the contribution they make to the health, well-being and development of their children.
These are the fathers who understand that there are a variety of aspects that go into parenting - among them, providing, protecting, guiding, disciplining - but that the most important aspect is abundantly showering a child with unconditional love and a strong sense of self-worth.
And these are the fathers who know also that although a devotion to parenting may seem to come naturally, the parenting skills usually don't. Parenting is a combination of devotion, thoughtfulness and proactive self-education.
Great fathers consciously commit themselves to becoming better fathers than their dads where, even in cases where their dads were fabulous fathers to begin with.
While the Father's Day holiday has roots that some believe go back 4,000 years, it's really a fairly modern invention.
In fact, it was debated in the United States for years after the first known Father's Day celebration was held at a YMCA in Spokane, Washington, in 1910. Even so, many credit Harry C. Meek, a 20th century president of the Lions Club in Chicago, as the "Originator of Father's Day" because he promoted the idea in speeches throughout the country.
Whatever the case, the idea of a Father's Day holiday was oddly controversial. A bill calling for a national holiday was first proposed in 1913 but the idea was debated and rejected for decade after decade, long after the Mother's Day holiday was born in 1914. It was not until 1972 that Father's Day was written into law. It was long overdue.
Fatherhood is a sacred responsibility and warrants the honor that today's holiday bestows.
To good fathers everywhere, we and the rest of society say thanks.