Include autistic kids in your daily life

Recently I attended a school assembly and learned of children collecting pennies for autism. I have an autistic grandchild so I wrote to those kids with thoughts that hopefully might inspire children and parents to think about kids who are "different" and consequently have special needs.

Special needs are often cared for by adults but in some of the most important ways, they can only be addressed by children. It doesn't cost a single penny. It only costs you.

When on the playground, will you sometimes ask your autistic classmates to join in your play? Remember it is often hard for them to make eye contact or even to know how to play. They may act in unusual ways. It is hard for them to express themselves. But, they should not have to stand alone while others play. When you have a birthday party, think of including them (as well as other kids who might seem different). If you are invited to a birthday party for them ... go. They have feelings just like you.

Kids can accomplish more than adults. You don't have to be all grown up. You can be 7 or 8. You may not know what autism or special needs are. But you can tell when someone seems different. You only have to care.

Rosemary Felbinger

St. Charles