Batavia couple celebrates 65 years of marriage at the place they made their vows

Shared beliefs and values the key to a long and happy marriage

Lifelong Batavia couple Ronn and Pat Pittman returned this month to the place they wed to celebrate 65 years of marriage.

At the celebration, Mayor Jeff Schielke surprised the Pittmans with a proclamation that their 65th anniversary, Sept. 5, 2024, would be known as Ronn and Pat Pittman Day in Batavia. The proclamation urged “all residents to join in celebrating the love, dedication and community spirit that Ronn and Pat have exemplified throughout their 65 years of marriage.”

They were joined by about 20 family members and friends, including the best man at their wedding, who Ronn still is close with today, as well as their siblings who were children at their wedding.

The Pittmans said the proclamation, which was organized by their son without their knowledge, was a heartwarming surprise.

Ronn and Pat Pittman, now 83 and 84, respectively, were teenagers when they got married in 1959. They were married at Batavia Christian Church, which now is Kon Printing. The church at 316 E. Wilson St. was built in 1890. Much like the happy couple, the facade of the church may have changed through the years but the foundation remains the same.

The Pittmans were both born and raised in Batavia and grew up together attending the same church. Neither can remember a time when they didn’t know each other.

The Pittmans said Batavia has changed a lot since they were kids. They said when they were growing up, people walked to church, stores and schools. Now it’s bigger and looks much different, but they still have a lot of friends in the area.

Ronn graduated from a technical school in Chicago before starting his career working on cars for Pontiac in Wheaton. He went on to become a manager and worked for Town and Country in St. Charles and then Cadillac in Aurora until he retired. In his retirement, he continues to work with cars, has been an appraiser for more than 40 years, once served as president of the Kane Kounty Kar Klub and is an avid collector.

Pat was among the first graduating classes of Waubonsee Community College and later earned a master’s degree in education. She began her teaching career in the Batavia school district’s now defunct Fox Hill Home for Girls as a reading specialist and went on to teach in other Kane County school districts.

The Pittmans raised their two children, Rick Pittman and Sue Avila, in Batavia and have seven grandchildren.

Ronn said they chose to stay in Batavia all these years because they love everything about the city: the size, the people, the community and the schools.

“We are blessed with our children and the way they were raised,” Ronn said. “I’m sincerely thankful for that.”

Pat said they haven’t changed too much since they got married, although they are more educated.

“I still think of her as my girlfriend,” Ronn said.

Asked what their favorite thing about each other was, Pat said, “We’re so used to each other, we don’t hardly think of that.” Ronn said he worships Pat’s cooking.

The Pittmans love to go out to eat together and love their dog Sweetie, an 8-year-old German shepherd born on their anniversary. Sweetie is the fourth German shepherd they have owned during their marriage.

Over the years, the Pittmans have done a lot together, including working on cars and driving to car conventions all over the country and traveling around the world on trips to Europe and the Middle East.

The Pittmans said the key to a long and happy marriage is to have shared philosophies, beliefs and values. Ronn said it’s important to be on the same page, which he and his wife usually are.