Create a stress-free zone for felines before guests arrive
Our felines are creatures of habit. They do not like change in routine. For some, the smallest change in a household is a stress trigger.
So let us start with the assumption that a great majority of felines find the holidays disruptive because of the parties, decorations and the dreaded house guest.
In order to keep our feline calm, and perhaps avoid the dreaded visit to the animal hospital, it is important for owners to get out in front of any problems caused by a stressed out feline.
Our felines do not want to share their home with strangers. Home is their territory, and, therefore, a place of sanctuary. We must begin with fortifying the feline sanctuary.
Most felines have a favorite resting spot they consider theirs alone. Try using a Feliway plug-in diffuser in this area. If this is a spare room or office, you may have some bedding or an open carrier in the room. Spray this favorite place with Feliway spray as well.
When guests are thought to be arriving, you may want your felines in the room with the door closed. A closed door will prevent an escape out the door when guests are arriving and leaving.
Guests spending the night create another problem. Even in a room with a closed door, your feline is under stress. Their sense of smell is keen. They will smell strange scents of humans, their pets, perfume and perhaps smoke.
If you live in a smoke-free environment, I am a big advocate of asking those guests to smoke outside or in their vehicles.
If you know your feline is hiding, let sleeping cats lie! Children or pushy relatives may want to befriend your feline. We are all not "cat whispers." Let them know your feline's boundaries should not be broken.
What do you say to the overnight guest that wants to bring their pet because they do not have a sitter? Miss Manners would probably call me rude, but I would either decline the stay or advocate that their pet go into boarding. At this point, the request is not appropriate and you are protecting your feline's well-being.
Your feline's private room needs all the essentials when guests are visiting. That means bedding, hiding spots, food, water and a litter box or boxes. This way you will know if your feline is eating, drinking and using the litter box.
If any abnormal behavior occurs from the stress, you may have to visit your veterinarian for medication that is more equipped to handle the stress or whatever new medical condition occurs from the stress.
All of our felines respond to stress differently. As your feline's guardian, you must be responsive to their needs and the hints they give you so you can best care for them.
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