Surround yourself with family, friends this Thanksgiving
"Celebrate with your family ..."
- Deuteronomy 26:11 (LB)
As we flip the calendar to November, we envision tables crowded with pumpkin pies, turkeys with dressing, and mouthwatering side dishes. Thoughts of our time with family and friends warm our hearts.
Family and fellowship are the most important aspects of our lives. We shouldn't consider our lives abundant without them.
Families gathering around the table for a meal appears to have become lost in the traditions of busy lifestyles and larger living spaces - each person retreats to their spot in front of the computer or T.V.
One of God's greatest gifts to us is the unity of fellowship with family and friends. Deep in our hearts, we long to be connected to others.
Experts say when families enjoy mealtime conversations or the fellowship of passing the potatoes or the pumpkin pie, a special bond forms.
Thanksgiving is one of the most important days of the year where everyone envisions this. We don't need to make it complicated, just simple and enjoyable.
Growing up, my household had large family gatherings that included uncles and aunts and cousins. We also invited friends that had no family close by.
Oftentimes, there were so many people in our small space, there wasn't enough room at the table for everyone. So my mother placed folding tables around our house to accommodate everyone.
I especially enjoyed the kids' table. Laughing and joking over the meal with cousins and siblings in our own special space gave us the freedom to enjoy the meal away from the adult conversation.
Forming a dining habit and embracing the tradition of the family meal keeps us from losing the family ties and the memories they bring.
However, many people are without family at the holidays. If we know anyone like this, we might consider inviting them to join us. Or show our thoughtfulness by bringing a dish to them and spending a moment or two to make them feel included.
No one should feel left out because of their situation. (There was a time I was housebound for the holidays. I understand how isolated it can make someone feel).
Someone alone may also consider going to a church dinner, soup kitchen and other special event (if possible), so they can find the fellowship and connection with others.
It often helps when surrounded by others who are going through similar situations. This can help form a bond with others who understand.
As we celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday, embrace the custom of sharing a meal with others to create wonderful memories that remain alive for years to come.
I wish each of you a blessed Thanksgiving.
• Annettee Budzban is an author, speaker, life coach, nurse and Bible teacher. Annettee is available to speak to your church group, business, civic organization or be your personal life coach. She can be contacted at Annetteebudzban@aol.com or (847) 543-8413. Sign up now for her conference, Writing for Fun or Profit, in February 2020.