Celebrations should be spirited and respectful

" … to celebrate joyfully the dedication."

- Nehemiah 12:27 (NIV)

I just attended a graduation party for my granddaughter. A few weeks ago, I celebrated my 60th birthday. Two weeks before that was my husband's birthday and, that same month, two of my grandsons had birthday festivities as well.

Looking at the summer activities we see carnivals, picnics and wedding bells ringing. There are barbecues, camp-outs and vacations as well. If you're like me, you love these celebrations.

I believe God enjoys parties and family festivities. The Old Testament was full of many feasts. The Bible even mentions that Jesus attended wedding receptions.

When we celebrate, we need to remember that God is an important part of our family structure and maintain a focus that when we celebrate to do so with sensibility. We need to be respectful toward those we honor and not be foolish at our festivities.

When we attend an event, we should remember we are celebrating a guest of honor or a special cause to which the party is dedicated. We are not there to bring up family grievances, belittle others or fan the flame of old family feuds. It's also not appropriate to lose our temper while attending a party.

Celebrations are a time of joy. Staying level headed while engaging in fun with family and friends can ensure a good time for all and show we have included the Lord in our time of celebration.

As I plan a few celebrations of my own, I wish all of you safe and happy summer celebrations.

• Join Annettee Budzban for some inspiration at 7 p.m. Friday, June 26, at 7 p.m. at the Libertyville Civic Center. Contact her at Annetteebudzban@aol.com or (847) 553-8413.