Treat everyone with respect despite differences

“For the whole Law (concerning human relationships) is compiled within one precept. You shall love your neighbor as you do yourself.”

— Galatians 5:15 (AMP)

By the pile of luggage, gym shoes and other personal belongings stacked next to the door, I knew the visit with my friend was coming to a close.

She had been vacationing here for about one week. It was good to see her again; but now it was time for her to go back home.

We have been friends since fifth grade. A job change for her husband caused her to move to the Carolina coast 12 years ago. Now our visits are limited to vacations and occasional phone calls.

But no matter the distance of miles or time, we seem to pick up where we left off. After she was gone, I thought about the blessing of good relationships.

Relationships, we all have them. Some are long lasting, others are here and gone.

What is a relationship but the ability to relate to others?

Relating with people can be difficult at times. But we must learn to relate to those who are different from us, as well as those with whom we feel a close connection.

As a nurse, I had to learn to have compassion for what my patients were going through even if I hadn’t experienced it myself. Making an effort to show interest in how others feel or what they do is key to keeping special connections.

A good relationship is based on give and take. Learning the balance of talking and listening provides the opportunity for each to share what we have in common.

Learning to say I’m sorry when there has been a communication breakdown is important. Not always having to have everything our own way also keeps a relationship alive.

Allowing each other space for other friends and keeping jealousy away keeps a relationship flourishing as well. Love is not touchy (1 Corinthians 13:5). Not allowing our feelings to get easily hurt can keep the lines of communication open.

Relationships take time and effort. Not everyone can become our best friends. Sometimes the season for a relationship may even be over. However, in general, showing love by following these scriptural basics can make a difference in nurturing healthy relationships.

Ÿ Annettee Budzban is a Christian author, speaker, life coach and nurse. She can be contacted at Annetteebudzban@aol.com or (847) 543-8413.