So sad we can’t help each other anymore

I’ve been reading about the case of Rodney Peterson, who offered two girls a ride in a snowstorm. Apparently, being a good Samaritan is now a crime. A lot of church pastors are going to have to change some Sunday sermons.

If I understand this case correctly, Mr. Peterson saw two teenage girls walking home in a snowstorm, underdressed for the weather. He pulled over, politely asked if they needed a ride, and continued on his way when they declined. I saw no mention in any article that there was anything demanding or threatening in his request. However, when the girls got home, they told their parents, who called the police. Mr. Peterson was arrested on charges of disorderly conduct under an ordinance that is so broad and vague it could be used against practically anyone at any time.

He explained the situation to Barrington police, but instead of being released with an admonishment that it probably was not a good idea to do that, he was charged with a second count since it involved a minor, and he was made a poster child for “stranger danger.”

Back in my day, it was considered neighborly to offer assistance or a ride to someone. If they declined, you wished them a good day and went on your way. Has our society really come to this point that we fear a bad person hiding behind every tree? If that is the case, why weren’t the girls’ parents charged with child abuse since they let them walk home unescorted by an adult?

I have learned something from this, though. The next time you or a family member are stranded along the road, or in need of help, I’ll be one of the hundreds of others passing you by. It’s just not worth it being a good Samaritan anymore.

Peter Mayhew

Rolling Meadows