Moving: Preparation helps ease kids worries

Moving to a new home brings with it a lot of emotions, particularly for families moving with children. Excitement and enthusiasm are coupled with anxiety and apprehension as to whether the kids will take to the new home and neighborhood. Carefully preparing children for the move, both practically and psychologically, can help ease the transition and make the process much smoother for the family.

"Moving is stressful for anyone, but it can be unsettling for children," said Jim McEneaney, senior regional vice president, Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage. "Create a moving list or game plan well in advance to help ensure that children are ready for the big day."

Here are some tips to help get you through the process.

Communicate

Maintain an open dialogue with children about the decision to move to a new house. Explain the reasons behind the move, and answer questions truthfully. Also keep them involved in the process by asking their opinions and giving them a job to do like packing their toys or watching over pets. Focus on the positive to help avoid any anxiety.

Comfort

When it comes time to move, pack up the kids' rooms last to minimize disruption. "The longer kids feel secure in their rooms, the easier the transition will be," O'Rourke says. "Then, set up their new bedrooms first so they feel like they're back in familiar surroundings." Be sure to have a box of favorite toys at the ready so kids have something to play with immediately after you arrive at the new home.

Explore

Help kids discover their new neighborhood. Do some research beforehand to understand what parks and other recreational activities are available. Also talk to your new neighbors and the town's tourism board for ideas and get the children involved in activities they enjoyed at their old home.