It truly is better to give than receive
"Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over …"
- Luke 6:38 (NIV)
The celebration of fun-filled festivities of the Christmas season can bring happiness to the world. But, for many people, circumstances beyond their control can turn the season of joy into sadness.
Buying gifts from a budget already stretched to the limit can leave some feeling inadequate. Sickness also does its best to leave a mark to quench a joyful spirit. For others who may be grieving from a loss or the pain of loneliness or rejection, it can feel like the happiness of everyone around them is grating on them like sandpaper.
Someone overcoming an addiction to alcohol or drugs may find themselves isolated, as they have chosen a new lifestyle and are learning new ways to celebrate, while some of their old friends are out for a night on the town.
As we center on our plans for joy and celebration, why not remember the true meaning of Christmas and plan to touch someone not on your usual gift list. It doesn't have to be a great expense to you, maybe just a touch of love.
I used to say when growing up, "One of my wonders of Christmas is wondering who mom will invite to our dinner celebration."
My mother had a generous heart. She couldn't stand to watch her elderly neighbors or friends spend Christmas alone and hurting, so she would invite them to join us. Other times she would send a comforting note in a festive Christmas card to someone who was sick and hurting.
When we reach out to someone else in simple ways to show our love and care, oftentimes, we receive a boomerang effect. We give a blessing and receive a greater one in return.
Think about what you might sneak into your Christmas agenda, and receive a heartfelt blessing beyond measure this Christmas.
• Annettee Budzban is a Christian author, motivational speaker, life coach and nurse. She can be contacted at Annetteebudzban@aol.com or (847) 543-8413. Invite her to be your personal life coach or speak at your church group or event or business.