FARMINGDALE, N.Y. -- Eileen James sits by the window when the sun is out, wears gloves to bed and hasn't had a hot meal in a week.
Like many elderly people in the New York area coping with no electricity or heat in their homes in the aftermath of Superstorm Sandy, the 78-year-old retired secretary confesses she's "starting to get less and less patient."
Health care officials, social workers and other volunteers are paying close attention to the elderly in the days since Sandy left millions in the dark throughout metropolitan New York and New Jersey. While some say life experiences have tempered the ability of the region's oldest residents to cope with the immensity of the destruction, others note signs that the stress of no electricity, displacement from their homes and upheaval from their daily routines is beginning to take a toll.
"When the sun is out, I gravitate to where it is coming in through a window and I sit there," James said Saturday as temperatures hovered in the high 40s. "I took my thermometer with me and it went up six degrees, and I felt a little warmer."
She said she has considered driving east to a daughter's home, but prefers to remain local so she can vote in the presidential election on Tuesday.
The situation is the same for thousands throughout the region.
At Comstock Court, a subsidized apartment building for senior citizens in Asbury Park, N.J., residents were given fliers on Friday informing them about free hot meals being served 10 blocks away.
Several said they were unable to make the trek even though their food has spoiled.
"I'm not walking over there. That's too far for me. My knees can't take it," said Pam Grove, 75.
Two utility poles were down behind the building and a snapped electrical wire was lying in the street half a block away.
Tenants had running water and were using their gas stoves to stay warm.
"It's dangerous, but if you don't turn your stove on, you've got pneumonia," said 72-year-old Rudolph Graham, the president of the tenants association.
Karen Boorshtein, president and CEO of Long Island's Family Service League, said the group has been monitoring nursing homes and reaching out through social workers to check on the elderly in their homes.
"We're making sure patients' needs are being met; if they need to be evacuated that they are evacuated," Boorshtein said. The workers also stay in contact with patients' relatives "to make sure there are no concerns with their loved ones in the nursing homes."
Suffolk County's Office of Aging reached out to 725 seniors before the storm to warn them to prepare, said county spokeswoman Vanessa Baird-Streeter. When Sandy passed, the office sent teams to the homes of residents who couldn't be reached by telephone and by Friday afternoon, all had been accounted for, she said. Some were provided with extra blankets and food while others were taken to Red Cross shelters.
Dr. Marie Genevieve-Iselin, a psychologist specializing in elder care at Zucker Hillside Hospital in Queens, said many of her patients have fared well.
"On the whole they are very resilient," she said, adding that older adults generally tend to cope well. "They have had other crises in their lives that they have been able to master and it gives them a road map."
Dr. Gisele Wolf-Klein, director of Geriatric Education at North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System, said older dementia patients were among those facing the greatest challenges. "Some of those who care for the elderly were unable to get to their homes because of their own transportation issues," Wolf-Klein said. That meant some older patients were "left alone without any help and that becomes a major, major problem."
She said some patients required changes in their medication, while others were temporarily placed in elder care facilities to be treated for heightened anxiety.
Up the street from Eileen James' home in Farmingdale, Mike Katz, a 73-year-old retired advertising executive said the chilly temperatures, dipping into the mid-30s overnight, are most troublesome for him and his wife.
"We're coping pretty good, but it's very cold," he said as he raked leaves strewn from Sandy's storm. "I knew it was going to be bad. And it was."
Katz said despite initial predictions that power would be restored in seven to 10 days, he was not optimistic. "I think it's going to be almost 20 days. Ten days would be wonderful, but there really are a lot of things to clean up."
Island Harvest, a Long Island-based food bank, dispatched a fleet of 11 trucks to various locations, giving out sandwiches and drinks. President and CEO Randi Shubin Dresner said she has seen many seniors at the trucks.
She encountered a woman on Friday outside the Point Lookout firehouse, whom she described as a "younger senior, in her late 50s."
"She just had this forlorn look," Dresner said. The woman would not tell Dresner what had happened to her.
"She didn't even know what to ask for. And when I said, 'What can I give you, what can we help you with?' she just was shaking her head and holding back tears. Then she asked, 'How about a hug?'"
"She grabbed me and she gave me this hug and she didn't want to let go. And when she let go she said, 'That's what I needed more than anything.'"
"They're just feeling alone and they're struggling."