Ways to help your shy child
• Introduce your child, and help him or her start conversations at new social settings.
• When your child starts a new activity, stay for the first practice or lesson.
• Avoid labeling your child as shy, because it will make your child feel more self conscious and nervous in social situations.
• Don't criticize your child for being shy.
• Don't force your child to do something that he or she is adamantly refusing to do.
Signs that you may need to seek professional help for your child's shyness
• Your child's shyness is interfering with his or her daily functioning.
• Your child shows no interest in social interactions.
• Your child doesn't speak at school. This could be a sign that your child has selective mutism.
• You have talked to your child's teachers, day care, baby sitter, etc. to make modifications to help with your child's shyness, but your child is still uncomfortable in these settings.
• Your child is unable to interact with his or her peers.
• Your child hasn't developed any friendships.
• Your child isn't able to raise his or her hand in class or talk to teachers due to anxiety.