Ron Onesti: A beach party birthday

  • Arcade Theatre owner Ron Onesti shares the stage with movie and singing star Frankie Avalon.

    Arcade Theatre owner Ron Onesti shares the stage with movie and singing star Frankie Avalon. Courtesy of Onesti Entertainment Corp.

Posted3/11/2022 6:00 AM

I can't tell you how many people come up to me and say, "What a cool job you have!" They see me on stage hanging with celebs, and are filled with warmhearted envy. What they don't see is the other 97% of the time when I have to create the shows, produce them, sell the tickets and pay the bills. However, there are those experiences that make it all worthwhile.

Sixties heartthrob, "Beach Party" movie legend and "Grease" teen angel Frankie Avalon one year played at the Arcada Theatre a couple of days before my May 8 birthday. We have worked together countless times before so it's always an exciting homecoming when Frankie comes to town. This time, however, was very special.


He came in on Friday night (the show was on Saturday) and we had our customary dinner peppered with a couple of bottles from our favorite Italian vineyard. The stories about Fabian, Chubby Checker, the Big Bopper, Bobby Rydell, James Darren and many other "Philly sound" rock 'n' roll superstars from "the neighborhood" were flowing. Did you know that just five years before Bobby Darrin's death, he painfully found out that the lady he thought was his mother his whole life was actually his grandmother, and his sister, Nina, was actually his mother!

Avalon also talked about passing on an offer to get involved with a project another buddy was working on. He wasn't big on investing in musicals, and it really didn't seem like it was going to go anywhere. Even his buddy wasn't too sure how it was going to go, being a show about the rise of his band's career. The show… "Jersey Boys." Oops!

It's always a great time with Frankie and the stories are priceless. His live show featured "Venus," "Beauty School Dropout" and other songs with stories that just tug at your heart and bring back wonderful memories. Of course, the most touching moment of the evening was his remembrance of his on-screen love, Mouseketeer beauty Annette Funicello.

His finale was a musical tribute that ended with that iconic "Mickey Mouse Club Show" theme song. Not a dry eye in the house!

Avalon still has that teen-idol look. It was hard to believe he was 72 years old (now 81); he even tugs on his full head of hair to prove it's his!

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After his show I went back on stage to bring him back out for a question-and-answer session. As I was about to bring him back, Chicago radio legend Dick Biondi joined Frankie and came back out to center stage. "Ladies and gentlemen, there is nobody who continues to do more for rock 'n' roll music in Chicago than Ron Onesti," Dick said. Then Frankie took the microphone and also said some very kind words and informed the audience that it was my birthday. Out came a cake that had a photo of me and Frankie right on top. Frankie sang "Happy Birthday" to me and I shared a piece of the huge cake with 900 of my closest friends!

The night continued for a few more hours of wood-fire baked pizza and Chianti. The next day, I was being honored by the order Sons of Italy in America, a national Italian American organization, with its Leonardo DaVinci Award (I was having a good week). It was a recognition of my entrepreneurial endeavors held at a beautiful luncheon.

I was surrounded by my family as I was humbled by this honor. Just as the program was to start, in walked Frankie Avalon and Dick Biondi! Frankie actually changed his flight plans so he could present the award to me! His words were so wonderful and he being there was nothing short of unbelievable.

No, they just don't make entertainers like they used to. Frankie Avalon is a neighborhood guy who never forgot where he came from. He gave me a birthday weekend I will never forget. Yes, show business is definitely a tough game. But that weekend was one of those times when it really wasn't horrible to be me.

• Ron Onesti is president and CEO of the Onesti Entertainment Corp. and The Historic Arcada Theatre in St. Charles. Celebrity questions and comments? Email

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