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Nov 5, 2015 5:00 AM - Q. I'm in an almost one-year relationship. While there are many wonderful aspects of our relationship and of him, I wonder about the long term. It took me a little while to put my finger on it, but it seems to center on impatience. He can be a very impatient driver (aggressive and tailgates), gets extremely frustrated easily when things don't work out the way he wants (a slow-loading app, a Word document not formatting correctly). This translates into many aspects of our relationship. Is this something that can be changed or eased? I find myself either withdrawing or trying to be the peacemaker or calming influence.