A gentleman's lesson in courage, kindness

I would love to share this little story with you, which may have happened thousands of times, all around us, on a daily basis.

It happened at Trader Joe's. After getting some items, I was ready to check out; seeing me waiting, a gentleman cashier directed me to his lane for payment. As I walked toward his lane, another customer suddenly appeared. I politely told that man I was asked to move to this lane. He made some rude remarks, but seeing that I had no intention of being bullied he moved his cart to the next lane over.

What happened next really touched my heart. This gentleman, my cashier, walked to the next lane, took his time and explained the situation to the man. After some exchanges, the cashier told the man that he was really rude and he should apologize.

The man never did apologize, but what I wanted to say is there are a lot of rude people who sprinkle dust of gloom and offer little offenses without a thought. However, some civilization and act of kindness may bring themselves some happiness, if no one else.

More importantly, I am so appreciative to the gentleman's kind act. He not only bravely righted the wrong, but also extended such warmth and consideration which turned a bad encounter into a heartwarming and sweet experience for me. I saw how he demonstrated courage, spoke up for the silent ones, all the while was polite, civil and persistent with this bully kind of person.

I came from a foreign place, and have lived here over 30 years. I feel lucky to be able to contribute to this society, while sharing all the blessings this land offers. My observation is that all the values, blessings and greatness are shaped and made possible, little by little, by people with big hearts like this gentleman from Trader Joe's.

NaiLi Ting

Park Ridge