Q. I have a bizarre dilemma that needs a light touch in handling. My wife, my children and I are very close to my grandparents. We see them often, never missing birthdays, or holidays. They are generous with gifts but, recently, gifts have been replaced by checks (usually $100). No problems there.
updated: 6/21/2013 5:04 PM
Be grateful, not angry during family discrepancies
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